It's Yours to Carry
The Xander Castil Story
2017 — The Beginning
It was the summer of 2017, and I had just turned sixteen when my father approached me with the idea selling his jewelry designs online.
Growing up, jewelry was our family’s way of making a living. I spent much of my childhood in jewelry exchanges, around tools, stones, and the craft my father built his life on.
It wasn’t nearly as glamorous as one might imagine, but it was honest work.
His idea was simple: he would create the jewelry and I would sell it on the internet.
And just like that, what would eventually become Xander Castil was born.
We working out from our small townhome garage, barely big enough to fit our car.
Our setup consisted of a few computers for designing, a 3D printer, two workbenches, and basic jewelry-making equipment my father had collected over the years.
This would serve as our workshop for the next five years. Cramped, and hot from the Florida heat, I never took any pictures of our workspace. I remember being too embarrased about it.
We started off with simple pieces — rings, pendants, earrings — and listing them on Etsy.
Experimenting to see what the online market responded to.
And it was during those early experiments that we decided to try something a bit different.
Living in South Florida, we both were avid fisherman. And one day, my father created a pendant based on the Snook, one of the most sought-after fish among local anglers.
We made a few pieces and wearing them out in the local piers and fishing spots, other anglers would often notice and ask about it.
Some even wanted one of their own.
Encouraged by the reactiom, I listed the Snook online.
At first... nothing.
In fact, the first nautical design ever sold was a triple Snook ring, a design I came up with that was based on the pendant.
It was only later, towards the end of year, that we started getting our first few sales for the Snook.
Looking back now, I'm amazed how one fish would eventually become the design that quietly set the foundation for everything that followed.
2018 - 2020 — The Founding of Castil
As those early sales continued, I began to imagine something bigger.
Being an ambitious, slightly delusional kid growing up, I started dreaming of building something better than our small, cramped, and hot garage workshop.
Originally, the brand was called “Castil.”
I came up with the name by splitting my last name, Castillo, in half.
I remember wanting a name that could represent my family’s lineage in jewelry, something that could sound like a jewelry house.
The name became my standard. Whenever I wasn't sure what direction to take, I would simply ask myself: what would a jewelry house do?
Or at least grow big enough to afford our own warehouse…
During my later high school years, we began building our nautical collection with designs such as the Mahi, the Tarpon, and the Redfish.
I spent many of my afternoons after school designing new products, building our website, and coming up with pricing and marketing strategies.
That routine would continue once I left for college.
However, by my second semester as a freshman, I realized I could not balance being both a full-time student and building a jewelry company.
After many weeks of thought, I decided to put all my efforts into what I thought would work out better not only for me, but for my family in the long run.
When the pandemic officially hit during my week of spring break, I took the opportunity to drop out of school and focus full-time on the business.
Around this time, Castil was officially registered as a company and my journey as a full-time jewelry entrepreneur would begin.
2020 - 2023 — The Isolation Years and The Come Up
The following years that would await me included many long nights, setbacks, and situations I never thought I'd ever find myself in.
I spent much of my time alone and isolated during this period, as much of the world did.
But if the earlier startup years taught me anything, it is that I can work well alone and under pressure.
2020 and 2021 would serve as our foundation years, reinvesting profits into the business, upgrading machinery, creating more designs.
Designs such as our movable Spin Reel and Action Fish series were created during this period.
2022 would be the year my character would be tested to its core.
Atleast we were finally able to move out of the garage and into our first warehouse.
2023 would start off a bit unpromising, but things would soon turn around quickly once June arrived.
And by the end of that year, Castil finally became a thriving and stable business.
2024 — Success, and what comes after it.
At the start of the new year, I had finally achieved what I had been longing for since I was a teen.
A real and stable business that my family and I could live and thrive off.
I was twenty-two, with the freedom to go wherever I wanted and do largely whatever I pleased without worry.
It was an incredible position to be in at such a young age, albeit achieved through much sacrifice.
Remarkably, it was all done privately and peacefully, without the need for social media or any real heavy marketing.Solely through organic traffic and word of mouth.
But of course, being the ambitious person I am, naturally I set my sights on growing the company more.
And grow we did.
More machines, more designs, and a bigger warehouse.
However, as the year went on, I noticed that the motivation that originally drove me had begun to fade.
As my passion for my work seemed to dwindle, I drifted through life for a while.
Trying to figure out exactly what was wrong with me.
The funny thing about success is that no one seems to talk about what can happen after you achieve it.
2025 — Xander Castil
Every new year, I tend to reflect on the past year and ask myself what I would like to accomplish next.
And for the first time since I probably started the company, I did not have a satisfying answer for myself.
What I did realize, however, is that despite having crafted and sold our nautical jewelry across the country and globe for years now, I found myself not fully understanding what I was working toward beyond business success alone.
Eventually in the summer of 2025, to my surprise, I found myself in a conversation that I didn’t expect. Upon meeting someone, I was asked to share a personal story of mine, something I never imagined anyone would care to hear, let alone ask. It was a rare moment of genuine connection for me, and what seemed like a casual encounter would eventually shape how I look at my own work.
Because it had finally become clear to me what our work was always meant to be about: to create masterfully crafted pieces of jewelry that can connect you to a feeling you never want to let go of, a memory you refuse to forget. A reminder of the stories that define us.
I myself did not wear my own jewelry for years. It was only after reflecting on what had been missing in my life, and everything I’ve been through, that I started wearing the piece that started it all, our original Snook necklace. It connects me to my Florida roots, reminds me of how a simple fishing hobby sparked this whole journey of mine. From the small cramped garage to having our own warehouse. From all the people I’ve met throughout the years, some still here and some not.
Through jewelry, the connections we make are ours to carry.
Xander Castil stands as a jewelry house made to represent life’s truest luxuries, the ones that can’t be bought — the connections we make.
After all, it’s yours to carry.
And so I ask you, what’s your story?
— Frank Alexander Castillo, Founder
